Two people just started going out. One day, one of them tries to hold hands and kiss at school, but the other pulls away.

The same night – when they’re alone – it ends up being the reverse. Suddenly, the one who was pulling away starts getting very sexual, and moving faster than the other is ready for.

Show me some love – tips to deal with private and public affection ... and sex

• Some people don’t like showing affection in public, regardless of how much attraction there is.
• Don’t judge how much someone wants to fool around based on how much they flirt.
• Some people need to build trust through acts of affection – like cuddling, light kisses and holding hands – before they fool around.
• Don’t judge how much someone likes you by how much they want to fool around when you’re alone.
• Talk about it. If you feel like the other person is hiding the relationship and just wants to have sex, ask what’s going on.