when a female has her genitals licked, sucked and kissed by her partner also called cunnilingus, 'giving head', or 'going down on her' some women get better orgasms from oral sex than from vaginal It takes practice to discover what feels best. The clit (clitoris) is often the most sensitive part of the female genitals. The person who is receiving the oral sex usually opens her legs so that the other person can see what they are doing. If you have nerve damage and have no feelings in the genital area, you may still find oral sex a turn on by watching your partner do oral sex on you. If you are concerned about losing bladder control, consume less liquid prior to sexual activity. It may not be for you. People have sex acts they like and those they don't. Sometimes your preferences will change over time.