Playing with pleasure spots

• some parts of the body are more sexually sensitive than others and these parts can be different for everyone
• some people like to explore their own pleasure spots as well as their partner's
• Your partner can't read your mind - you will have to tell them or show them where you do and do not like to be touched
• once you know the 'hot spots', all sex acts can become more exciting
  
  
  
  • If you are super ticklish, this may be pointless. A laughing fit can be fun, but won't make you feel sexy.
  • If you have nerve damage, you may not have much or any feeling in certain areas of your body, incliding the genitals. Explore and discover what parts are sensitive and arousing to touch.
  • If you tried it naked and couldn't relax, try it again with some clothes on. There are many sensitive spots than can be exposed when you are still dressed.
  • It may help if you are turned-on a bit already. Try doing other stuff first to put you in the mood.
  • It may not be for you. People have sex acts they like and those they don't. Sometimes your preferences will change over time.