How do you have sex with another girl?

There are a lot of different ways to express sexuality and intimacy when two girls have sex together, just like there are many ways for a guy and a girl to be sexually close. Two girls can have sex by fingering or masturbating each other, having oral sex, or using sex toys for example. Some other things that girls can do together include using their hands or mouths to touch and explore each other's bodies, cuddling, massage, reading erotic literature or watching erotic films, playing out fantasies, and so on. The list is as long as you make it. There is no right or wrong way to express sexuality, as long as both people feel comfortable and enjoy it.

How many times a day is it normal to masturbate?

Some people may masturbate several times a day, others might masturbate a few times a week, others a couple times a month, and some people not at all. There is no right or wrong amount; it is different for each person. Masturbation is not harmful, in fact some people find that it actually helps them to relieve stress. It can be an important part of a person's sex life. If you find that masturbation is interfering with your day-to-day life, or if you have feelings of guilt or shame about masturbating, you could call a phone help-line or consider seeing a counsellor.

Do girls masturbate?

Yes, some girls masturbate, just like some boys masturbate. Girls can have strong sexual urges, just like boys do.

Do all gay guys have anal sex?

A lot of times people think that if a guy is gay he has to have anal sex. There are lots of sexual things that two guys can do together like touching, kissing, oral sex, jerking each other off, etc... Some gay guys do enjoy anal sex, just like some straight guys like having anal sex. There are also some gay guys who don't like anal sex, and prefer to do other sexual activities. It changes from person to person, and also from situation to situation. For example, someone might wait to have anal sex with someone until they feel they can trust them enough to discuss using condoms. Other people might feel comfortable having anal sex during the first sexual time with someone. It really depends.

I had vaginal intercourse and I started to bleed. Why?

It is common for girls to bleed after intercourse, especially if it's their first time. When a female gets turned on, one of the changes to her body is that the muscles in the walls of the vagina relax and lubricate which makes it easy for a penis to penetrate the vagina. If the vaginal muscles do not relax and there is no lubrication a female may experience pain during intercourse. The penetration may also irritate the dry lining of the vagina and cause small tears which bleed. Some girls find they are not relaxed because they are nervous about pregnancy, for example, or
anxious that they may get caught by a parent. If the bleeding was caused by tearing, then it will heal on it's own in a few days. If it's sore, it might be a good idea to avoid intercourse and inserting anything into the vagina for a few days until it heals.

I had anal sex. I'm still sore, is that normal?

Sometimes anal sex can leave a person sore. This can happen when someone is still getting used to anal sex, or if there wasn't enough lubrication used. The rectum (inside the anus) doesn't produce it's own lubrication, so using extra lube is important. If you are sore for more than 3-4 days after you had anal sex, it might be a good idea to get it checked out by a doctor.

My partner has a large penis, I am afraid it will hurt when we have sex

When you feel relaxed the vaginal muscles will relax and lubricate and the penis can penetrate smoothly. Being turned on is more important in pain free sex than the size of the penis. Using extra lubrication (inserting it or putting it on the condom/penis) can also help the penis to glide in easier. The length of the vagina will always be smaller that the length of an erect penis therefore the position you have intercourse in can cause more pain than the size of the penis. Try different positions to find ones that work for you. If you are interested in having sex, you might also want to try inserting smaller things in your vagina first like fingers or sex toys so you get more comfortable.

It's important to discuss these types of concerns with your partner, especially in a situation like this. Keep in mind that there are a lot of other sexy things to do besides intercourse. You have every right to put off having sex with your partner, or not having intercourse at all. You can also stop or leave any situation that is painful or upsetting to you. If you start to have sex and you don't like it, you have the right to stop at any time.

Are there better positions to be having sex?

There are lots of different positions to have sex. It depends of how comfortable you and your partner feel and how flexible your body is. It is a good idea to try different positions out and see what you like. Some common sexual positions can be

• lying down
• standing up
• taking turns being on top
• doggie style (where one person is behind the other person)

You might find that you like having sex while you're on top and your partner likes having
sex standing up. You and your partner can talk about what feels good for both of you.

What does the word orgy mean?

The word orgy means a group of people that get together for sexual pleasure. They can be sexually involved with other people or they can watch. Some examples can be a group of people masturbating together, making out and/or having sexual intercourse.

My partner wants me to swallow his cum, should I? What does it taste like?

It is completely your choice if you want to swallow your partner's cum. If you feel pressure, you might want to talk to your partner about it. There is some risk of getting Sexually Transmitted Infections when performing oral sex on a guy and swallowing his cum. Some STI's can be transmitted from putting your mouth on a guy's genitals and other ones can be passed on through semen. If you are worried about STI's you can use a condom while giving oral sex.

As for the taste of cum, it is usually warm and can range from salty to sweet depending on the type of food that a guy eats.