It may take time and more learning about same-sex relationships before you know.

• You may already know, but are still pulling together the courage to admit it to yourself. That's okay too.
• You may feel great as you start to figure this out, especially if you know people who you can talk to.
• You may feel horrible and scared - especially if you're surrounded by people who are homophobic.

There's no rush to label yourself with a specific sexual orientation, and you actually never have to.

• Consider spending less time with people who are homophobic as you learn more about your own sexuality.
• If you want to learn more
  • read some books or internet sites about same-sex relationships
  • visit a community group for teens exploring their own sexuality
  • Consider talking to someone you trust.
• If you want to meet other people who are lesbian, gay or bi, consider joining a local youth group.